सोमवार, 8 मार्च 2010

Message to women



Neeti Ray is a manager in an MNC, writer and book reviewerSun, Mar 7 10:53 PM
Today is International Women's Day and if you're like me, you're probably hard at work in front of a computer screen. Or your situation could be different: You could be looking at your day's schedule before your patients start pouring in. Or trouble-shooting for your clients. Or finally catching a moment's rest after having sent your spouse to work and your children to school.
Whether you are married or single, working or a stay-at-home, a mother or childless, I hope you are one of the increasing number of women who have chosen their identity in the myriad possibilities that now exist for women. I not unaware of the fact that there are regions in the world where women are still suppressed, bought and sold like cattle, endure a lifetime without basic education and live a life marked by an absence of personal liberty. I'm also aware of the fact that if you are educated, possess an engaging personality and have a job that gives you financial independence, it's no guarantee of a happily-ever-after where love, romance and marriage are concerned.
It isn't easy, is it, being a woman? In some ways, it's harder if you are a liberated, modern woman who has used her freedom of choice. Freedom and choice bring with them the mixed blessings of accountability to the self. If I am soaring on the wings of success today, it is because I painstakingly built those wings. Or if my flight towards my dreams has become grounded, then I must take responsibility for my temporary failure. The psychological pressure a woman of today faces is enormous. But we can't go back, we must move forward. We are the torch bearers for little girls who are learning their alphabets and multiplication tables. Little girls, who will look up to us as their role models when they come of age and start asking questions and seeking answers.
I have only one message, not only for the young ones, but also for you: change the paradigm. Create new definitions of what it means to be a woman. If there is a box that society has created or one that you have created for yourself and you find that box confining, climb out of that box. If following the prescribed guidelines for femininity is the way to your bliss, then follow those! If you need to change those guidelines to suit your soul's need, change them! Let there be no rules except the ones you make for yourself. Allow yourself this freedom of self-definition and applaud its different versions in your fellow travellers. Be yourself and do us all proud!

source : Yahoo News

3 टिप्‍पणियां:

  1. thanks for the msg...
    i have also written something on women's day...kindly visit my blog

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  2. Janaab !
    Dr. sinha ji
    Your massage is quite open and spurring for the world of woman, but it seems to me that the world of woman is already whipped up less or more as far as matter concern of being bewared about their rights to live with equal right in proportion to what the man is having from a long. I think of the problem starts along with the mindset of the man who thinks the woman is the matter mingled with his heady mixture of desire and luxury. That’s why, as a true reformer the man should firstly change his mindset, and let the woman pass through the passage to get ahead of us, than alone the reformation would be possible.

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  3. I am not in that category,where I can be independent off many things that tie down a woman.Yes, my daughter is...touch wood...and her generation..
    Very articulately written article!

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